In loving memory of Raymond & Elaine Young

In loving memory

Raymond “Ray” & Elaine Young

They’re the reason Elaine’s House exists. This is their story, and the promise we made to keep their love working for families across Western Pennsylvania.

Portrait of Raymond and Elaine Young
Ray & ElaineForever the heart of our house
From our family to yours

Why we named it Elaine’s House

Our parents, Ray and Elaine, gave us everything. When it was our turn to care for them, we learned that the best care isn’t a checklist. It’s knowing how someone takes their coffee, which stories make them laugh, and how to help without ever taking away their pride.

We cared for them at home for many years. When we said goodbye, we knew we wanted that kind of care to keep going.

So we put Mom’s name on the door. Every person we support at Elaine’s House is treated the way we treated our parents: with patience, dignity, and a whole lot of love.

With love, Ray & Elaine’s family

The family album

A life well loved

A few moments from our family’s photo albums, shared with love.

Raymond and Elaine Young in a studio portrait
Ray & Elaine
Ray and Elaine at a family celebration outdoors
Family celebrations
Elaine in the family kitchen
In the kitchen
Elaine smiling outdoors with her walker
Every step
Family members at Elaine’s bedside, leaning in close and smiling
Always by her side
Elaine at a family dinner
Family dinners
Our journey

From their home to Elaine’s House

  1. Raymond & Elaine Young

    A marriage, a family, and a lifetime of showing up for the people they loved.

  2. Caring for Mom & Dad at home

    As they grew older, our family cared for them for many years: appointments, meals, good days and hard ones, always together.

  3. Saying goodbye

    We lost Ray and Elaine, but not what they taught us about patience, dignity, and love.

  4. 2024: Elaine’s House is founded

    We built a provider for adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities, carrying Elaine’s name and the care our parents received.

  5. Today

    Supporting individuals and families across Allegheny and Butler counties, and growing our team of Direct Support Professionals.

A mantel with framed family photos, purple and gold flowers, and a softly lit candle.
Their legacy, our standard

What Ray & Elaine taught us

  • Dignity first. Help should never cost someone their pride.
  • Family shows up. On the hard days and the good ones.
  • Home matters. People thrive where they feel they belong.
  • Love is in the details. The little preferences are the big things.
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For individuals & families

Find support that feels like family

Tell us about your loved one’s goals. We’ll walk you through every step, from your Supports Coordinator to your first visit.

For caring professionals

Make a difference every day

We’re hiring Direct Support Professionals in Butler, PA. $17–$19/hour, full and part time, training provided.

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